We can be frustrated by the lack of accountability in others or the seeming unwillingness of others to be held to account. Long ago I learned to stop looking for accountability in the world outside and look within myself. If others see you as one who accepts the consequences of being called to account, then they will be encouraged to accept being held accountable. Those who demand accountability in others but who are unwilling to be held accountable, drive people away. Do as I say but not as I do, does not work with professionals.